Staying True

Greetings Everyone,

I hope you are all well today. One thing that I have learned in life is that we are all unique individuals. We each have our own set of mannerisms, quirks, characteristics, ideologies, flaws and strengths. Essentially, we are all wonderfully made. It took me many years to understand this. I am different than most. I never really fit in. It bothered me as an adolescent because I did not know the importance of celebrating my uniqueness. I had minimal friends and I was always a loner. I am and I have always been the truest form of an introvert. I am also an empath, which became even more of a characteristic of mine late into adulthood. I care about people in ways many don’t. I feel I care too much at times. I treat everyone the way I want to be treated. We are all special people.

Here is my point with this post. We have so many people who do not know their worth. I see this more with younger people, however all ages are impacted. I did not have the best sense of self-worth when I were younger. I experienced a lot of things, Having worked with a lot of people over the years, especially children; this is a recurring trend which is seen a lot. Once, my best friend asked me to complete a survey for a young lady he was mentoring. One of the questions I was asked was about my advice for people who are experiencing similar feelings. My answer was simple. It was for everyone to love themselves as is, because no one will love you as much as you do. Secondly, God (if you believe in Him) does not make any mistakes, we are all made wonderfully.

I tried for years to be something that I wasn’t. I desperately wanted to fit in. However, I lost more of myself. I always questioned myself and my father about why I am the person I am. I have come to learn that there are many things that shape us. There are some traits that are passed down from one’s relatives. Everyone has their own set of beliefs and values. There are unlimited possibilities for each of us. We all have varied experiences. Everyone is different, and that is perfectly okay. Continue to grow. Build people up instead of tear them down. Live your life the best way you see fit. No matter what you decide to do. No matter where life takes you, always love yourself and stay true. Stay wonderfully you and evolve.

Peace and blessings everyone,

~>Rayne Elise ❤